Connecting Online Can Help Prevent Social Isolation In Older People

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Why Politicians With Deep Voices Get More Votes

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En realidad son rubias mudo?

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¿Cómo nuestro sesgo hacia el futuro puede nublar nuestro juicio moral

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Por qué no hay límites a su fuerza de voluntad

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Is Gossip A Social Skill Or A Character Flaw?

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Your Life Purpose: It’s Not What You Think It Is

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All The World’s A Stage... What Part Are You Playing?

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Get Off Your Cross, Somebody Needs the Wood

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¿Por qué muchos conservadores parecen tan miserable?

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You Can Be Happier: You Have What You Need to Be Happy

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Reinventing How We Play the Game Called Life

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Reflections Before Good-bye: The Four Things That Matter Most

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Changing Your Own Mind and Getting Out of Your Own Way

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Life Is Full Of Uncertainty, The Trick Is To Learn To Live With It

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Time to Wake Up: Matching Your Thoughts and Words With Your Actions

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Ancient Wisdom For The Modern World: Living Life In The Face of Stressful Situations

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Un poco de claustrofobia es normal

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Por qué no hay tal cosa como una personalidad adictiva

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Voy a castigar a su mal comportamiento para hacerme quedar bien

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Los placeres pasados ​​son duras condiciones de decir que no

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Internet de uso problemático (PIU) es el nuevo Addiction en el campus

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Son masculinos y femeninos cerebros realmente diferente?

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Turning On Your Brights & Beaming Your Radiance

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Drinking Is Bad For You And That's Why It's Fun

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The Psychology Of New Year’s Resolutions

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Research has shown that about half of all adults make New Year’s resolutions. However, fewer than 10% manage to keep them for more than a few months.

How To Make Your New Year's Resolutions Work

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Is Seeing Sacrifice As "Going Without" Holding Us Back?

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How to Thrive Rather than Just Survive the Holiday Season

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Why Keeping Calm Is The Secret To Aging Well

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As we get older our physical and mental abilities decline, but it doesn’t have to be that way. Research suggests that the way we live our lives - our diets, our exercise regimes - can have a big impact on how we age. And it’s not just about the things we do to age well, it’s also about the things we avoid.

Why Birth Order Is A Myth For Determining Behavior

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What Are False Memories?

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Check Back In and Find the Lesson in Life’s Challenges

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The Greater Design of Evolution: The Collective Rise of Consciousness

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How To Free Yourself from Regretting the Choices You’ve Made

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Adopting Perspective In The Face of Challenge

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What Is Living Consciously and How Is It Done?

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Why Is It That Kids Get Hostile When They Expect Hostility?

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From Guilt to Bliss Through "Indulging" in Chocolate

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Why Unplug In This Age Of Distraction?

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Learning How to Fail: Taking Risks and Learning From Mistakes

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Why Leaders Typically Can Not Change

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Can We Unlearn Social Biases While We Sleep?

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How Sharing Your Success Is Perceived As Bragging More Often Than You Think

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How We Project Our Goals Onto Other People

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Do We Learn Better When We’re Punished?

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Resisting, Repressing, and Ignoring Unpleasant Emotions Doesn’t Work

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The Path to Smart Change Requires Patience and Persistence

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Deviant Behavior: Why It Takes Guts To Go Against The Crowd

against the crowd 3 15“Deviant individuals can exist in almost every society, even in the most strict and ruthless ones such as Nazi Germany. These deviant group members serve as an opposition to the opinions of the majority and can also differ from the majority in their emotional experience.”

How Music Helps Resolve Our Deepest Inner Conflicts

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Creating a New Dream of Life Guided by the Truth of Our Emotions

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How to Get Out of a Coma & Be the Director of Your Life

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New Year's Resolutions: Symbolic Gestures, Magical Thinking

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It Only Takes a Few Seconds to Be Kind

It Only Takes a Few Seconds to be Kind

In 1993, Conari Press published a book called Random Acts of Kindness. This book started a movement of people looking for ways to be kind to complete strangers. It was not at all unusual to see a bumper sticker on the car in front of you that read, “Practice Random Acts of Kindness.”

¿Seguro que está sintiendo realmente la ira?

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Why We Feel Rage And How To Control It

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Why We Blow Up When We Argue About Politics

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How To Keep from Getting Sucked into Your Rage

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Why Black Friday Leads Shoppers To Behave Badly

Why Black Friday Leads Shoppers To Behave Badly

The manic nature of Viernes Negro has often led shoppers to engage in fistfights and other misbehavior in their desperation to snatch up the last ultra-discounted television, computer or pair of pants.

Desafiar la ansiedad y eliminémosla del Anillo

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When You Can't Make Up Your Mind

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Trusting Your Soul To Produce The Outcome That Is Most Beneficial To You

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Moving Beyond Fear: How Does Fear Dominate Your Life?

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Opening Your Heart Wider Than Your Fears

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Follow Your Passion and Stop Limiting Yourself

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How to Surrender Your Self-Doubts Completely

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What Causes & Stops Panic Attacks? Understanding Agoraphobia and PTSD

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Love, Gratitude, or Trust: Which Is More Important?

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Diving into Our Fears and Overcoming Them

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Surrendering to the Fires of Change in Your Life

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Cómo conseguir sus niveles de estrés bajo control

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Personalidad, sin duda influye en la experiencia del estrés de las personas. Los que tienen tendencias perfeccionistas obsesivos () y los que tienen una tendencia a poner las necesidades de los demás por delante de sí mismos o buscar la aprobación de los demás (dependiente) son particularmente vulnerables al estrés. Al tener estos rasgos de personalidad no es una mala cosa ...

Learning to Recognize Chaos As A Friend and Powerful Ally

Learning to Recognize Chaos As A Friend and Powerful Ally

The Oxford dictionary defines chaos as complete disorder or confusion. In general when we speak of chaos we associate it with a negative state and negative energy. When someone says, “My life is chaotic” or “Chaos is everywhere” we understand that person to mean, “My life is a mess and I am a mess”.

Siete puertas para escapar de la prisión de la culpa

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El sistema de atención sentimientos ... lo que puede sentir más amor

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Si usted desea alcanzar su sueño, perdonar un poco de

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Breaking the Guilt Cycle: The End of Guilt Is The End of Sickness

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No culpa y vergüenza Mujeres Para embarazos no deseados

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Healing our World: One Individual, One Family, One Nation at a Time

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Poggio Bustone: Knowing We are Forgiven

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A Day of Forgiving Dissolves the Armoring Over the Heart

A Day of Forgiving Dissolves the Armoring Over the Heart“You owe me” is resentment. “I owe you” is guilt. And the longer our interactions go on like this, the more impoverished we become. We lose our balance, the heart is thrown askew. The gut tightens. The eyes cannot open fully. But forgiveness rebalances the mind and brings kindness to the senses.

Love and Forgiveness: The Antidotes to Fear and Blame

Love and Forgiveness: The Antidotes to Fear and BlameOne morning Rose began our session by saying it was time for me to take a very important journey. “It’s a journey we all must take within this lifetime. It’s the journey that takes us from being a child to becoming an adult. And what you need to make this journey are the powers of love and forgiveness.”

Forgiveness As The First Step In Reconciliation

Forgiveness As The First Step In ReconciliationThe sentencing of Dzhokhar Tsarnaev for the Boston Marathon bombing and the sad aftermath of Dylann Roof’s racial killings in Charleston, South Carolina have raised the question of forgiveness in an acute fashion.

Judging By Appearances: The Alcoholic Saint

Judging By Appearances: The Alcoholic SaintA fellow set out to find a particular saint who lived in a remote village. The shopkeeper told him he would find the saint under a certain tree, teaching disciples. Excited, the seeker made his way to tree, but instead of finding the saint he saw a drunkard blabbing with a couple of guys.

Shedding Light on The Ego’s Weapon of Guilt

Shedding Light on The Ego’s Weapon of GuiltWhen we cut through the smoke and mirrors of guilt, we can see that the thoughts and emotions that ignite guilt are all made up. When our self-awareness “muscles” strengthen, we find that we’re less apt to fall into the default pattern of simply reacting to the unconscious flow of our thoughts and emotions.

Are You Biased? You May Be Surprised at the Answer

We Have No Idea How Biased We AreIt has been well established that people have a “bias blind spot,” meaning that they are less likely to detect bias in themselves than others. However, it hasn’t been clear how blind we are to our own actual degree of bias, and how many of us think we are less biased than others.

We All Feel Disgust But Why Do Some Of Us Turn It On Ourselves?

We All Feel Disgust But Why Do Some Of Us Turn It On Ourselves?Disgust is a universal emotion – we all get disgusted by things, just as we all experience other “basic” emotions, such as happiness and sadness. Disgust has many functions. It protects us from products that might cause us harm (food that has gone off), it can give us a moral compass (when we see someone being treated unfairly) and it keeps us away from things that remind us of our animal nature (dead bodies).

Betrayal and the Gift of Forgiveness

Betrayal and the Gift of ForgivenessHave you ever been lied to or betrayed by someone you loved and trusted? Has anyone not believed you when you were telling the truth? Has anyone you loved walked away from the relationship and refused to try to work out the differences? Everyone has been hurt by someone else. How do we get rid of the hurt and move on with our lives. How can we forgive?

The Cost of Not Forgiving: Changing Our Minds Changes Our Bodies

The Cost of Not Forgiving: Changing Our Minds Changes Our BodiesThousands of case studies proved beyond any reasonable doubt that cancer can be cured by a change in one’s thinking! In the patients who were able to resolve the conflict through recognizing their innocence and mistaken self-blame and guilt, not only did the pattern in the scan resolve itself (disappear), but so did the cancer.

Don’t Take Anything Personally but Learn To Listen!

Don’t Take Anything Personally but Learn To Listen!Imagine for a moment all the things you say or don’t say, and all the things you do or don’t do in one day because of what others might say about you. If you wrote out a list, it might take a long time. Do you realize how much power you give to other people’s opinions? What if you could recover that power?

Forgiveness: Learning to Keep Our Heart Open

Forgiveness: Learning to Keep Our Heart OpenI know some remarkable people, even some who are considered great human beings, but I have never known anyone whose heart is open all the time. Even the Dalai Lama speaks of anger arising and of saying things that, much to his chagrin, can never be taken back. Forgiveness of oneself and others is...

Moving From Rewards & Punishment to An Open Heart

Moving From Rewards & Punishment to An Open HeartEchemos un vistazo a el sistema de recompensa y castigo, ya que se practica entre los seres humanos. Nosotros premiamos a nosotros mismos oa otras personas cuando juzgamos que una acción es "buena". Nos castigar a los demás oa nosotros mismos por algo "malo". Pero, ¿quién lleva la voz cantante en esto? ¿Quién es la persona calificada para juzgar?

Miracles: Seeing The Universe From A New Level Of Consciousness

From the Soul 
to the World: The Miracle of ExchangeGenerally, people consider life to be a natural phenomenon in which one profits without giving anything in exchange. But the miracle requires an exchange: what we were given, we must share with others. If we are not united, we cannot grasp the miracle.

Why Generosity Is Good For Your Health

Why Generosity Is Good For Your Health?Every day, we are confronted with choices about how to spend our money. Whether it’s thinking about picking up the tab at a group lunch or when a charity calls asking for a donation, we are faced with the decision to behave generously or not.

Remembering To Say Thank You Is More Important Than You Think

Remembering To Say Thank YouYou might think that people know you are grateful, so you don’t have to share it. But remember that expressing your gratitude is a special gift for you as well. I feel very far from perfect in remembering to say thank you, and yet it has become something that is very important to me...

Appreciating The Connection to a Hummingbird and All Life

Appreciating Our Connection to All LifeHolding the hummingbird was a gift. It was an awesome privilege to be given thirty unforgettable minutes when time stood still and I held the most exquisite creature in my hands, felt its warmth, and marveled at its magnificence.

A New Way to Receive Appreciation: Can You Handle It?

A New Way to Receive Appreciation: Can You Handle It?There are two different types of acknowledgment. There are compliments which are more superficial and then there are deeper appreciations that involve your character and inner qualities. How do you handle acknowledgment from others?

Seeing The Whole Picture and The Infinity of Tiny Gratitudes

Learning To See The Whole Picture and The Infinity of Tiny GratitudesFeeling deep gratitude is wonderfully addictive; the more we do it, the more we querer to do it, and so we begin looking even more deeply to reflect on things for which we’re grateful. I first learned about the amazing power of gratitude during a time when my financial situation was quite bleak...

The Attitude of Service: How To Brighten Up the World

The Attitude of Service: How To Brighten Up the WorldDespite what Madison Avenue would like us to believe, that vacation to the Riviera, that Chrysler PT Cruiser, that anti-aging cream is not the secret to happiness. There's only one thing that unlocks the door to true peace of mind. Serving a purpose bigger than...

Appreciation and Being of Service Contribute To Evolutionary Shift

Appreciation & Being of Service Contribute To An Evolutionary ShiftWhen we recognize the impact we have, purely by being responsible for our state of mind – and how that affects the electromagnetic field that surrounds us, we realize that every moment sets in motion an incremental modification of such import that its trajectory could create a global shift in consciousness.

Breaking the Vow of Perfection and of Always Striving but Never Arriving

Breaking The Vow of Perfection and Always Striving But Never ArrivingMany people still operate with an inner belief that if they try harder to be better — the best, perfect — then everything will be so much better in all areas of their lives. So they take a vow: “I have to be perfect and will be critical of myself until I am.”

How You Can Change Your Inner Critic Habit

Can You Change Your Inner Critic Habit?For the majority of people if they turned on a radio and the station was negative and critical, fearful, whining, or complaining they would turn it off. Most people would take control of the situation and choose something that would be more enjoyable and more productive. You may wish to take some time to tune in and really become aware of the background station that you are tuned into...

Why Not Give Yourself A Break About Trying To Be Perfect?

Why Not Give Yourself A Break About Trying To Be Perfect?In my daily work as a therapist/coach I've discovered there is one thing that we all have in common. We are all, everyone including me, so amazingly unkind and hard on ourselves. The truth is, I have never met anyone who is not super critical of themselves and who doesn't have unrealistic expectations when it comes to being a so-called "perfect" human being.

Perfectionism And Burn-out Are Close Friends

Perfectionism And Burn-out Are Close FriendsIt was Voltaire who said: “perfect is the enemy of the good” – and he should know. A strident critic of existential perfection, Voltaire spent much of his working life attacking the notion of a world imbued by flawless divinity.

Purplewashing: Denying or Repressing Uncomfortable Emotions

Purplewashing:  Repressing Or Denying Uncomfortable Emotions

Purplewashingis a term I have coined to describe the tendency people have to gloss over, repress, or deny uncomfortable emotions, usually by “spiritualizing” the situation or by “being nice” about it. I call it purplewashing because it is similar to...

Why You Need to Give Up The Need To Be Right

Why You Need to Give Up The Need To Be Right

Often, we just can’t forgive. Although we may want to completely let it go, the debate in our minds and the emotion tied to the event are too strong, especially when the offense has occurred repeatedly over a long period of time. Our insistence on the arguments that support our position become...

¿Por qué redes de apoyo y Relaciones Rajado son importantes

La importancia de las redes de apoyo y Relaciones RajadoUna de las cosas más importantes que una persona pueda tener durante cualquier enfermedad está dedicado, cariñoso apoyo. Sólo el sentido de la atención por sí sola que se despertó cuando las personas se reúnen en un espectáculo unificado de amor es una poderosa declaración. Las redes de apoyo también sirven para ...

Guía del principiante a las diferencias de sexo en el cerebro

Guía del principiante a las diferencias de sexo en el cerebroPreguntando si existen diferencias sexuales en el cerebro humano es un poco como preguntar si el café es bueno para usted - no pueden parecerse a los científicos a formarse una opinión acerca de la respuesta. En 2013, por ejemplo, noticias proclamaron diferencias en el cerebro tan dramático que los hombres y las mujeres "casi podrían ser especies separadas." Luego, en 2015, titulares anunciaron que hay ...

Están saliendo Aplicaciones Matar relaciones a largo plazo?

Están saliendo Aplicaciones Matar relaciones a largo plazo?sitios de citas en línea y aplicaciones están transformando las relaciones. Más de 10 por ciento de los adultos estadounidenses - y casi 40 ciento de las personas que se identifican como "única y mirando" - están utilizando sitios web de citas en línea y aplicaciones.

Relaciones 101: Claves para relaciones satisfactorias

relaciones 101Nuestras relaciones con los demás - ya sea casual o íntimo - nos proporcionan una constante espejo, la verdad de nosotros mismos. Si ha creado generalmente amante, relaciones de apoyo, dar un poco de aprecio, para usted son, evidentemente, ser cariñoso y de apoyo a sí mismo. Si ha creado relaciones difíciles ...

How Can You Create An Unshakable Bond Of Closeness?

What Is Closeness?One of the beliefs our society holds most dear is that re­lationships are complicated. Not just romantic relationships, ei­ther — todo relationships are fraught with intractable complexities. Watch any movie, read any novel, and you’ll begin to believe that even the best relationships are balancing on the edge...

Letting Go of Fear Based Beliefs and Finding True Love

Where to Find True LoveWe were trained to believe that we are empty or broken, and if we can just get someone to give us what we are missing, we would be happy. Then we must control our supposed source of good so that person will keep doing the things that make us feel loved.

Patience: Why We Need It and How to Get It

Patience: Why We Need It and How to Get ItWhile we "know" patience is important, it remains one of life's greatest lessons. In our modern society of instant gratification, it sometimes seems that patience is a forgotten commodity. It is somewhat like the joke that goes "God grant me patience, and give it to me right away.".

Believe You Can Create a Joyful Solution

Believe You Can Create a Joyful SolutionMost people spontaneously look for solutions that meet everyone’s needs. We want to please the people we love and want to please ourselves. It’s when we get stuck that we start to look for a compromise or think someone has to sacrifice.

Open Your Heart to Easily Move Out of Victimhood and Struggle

Open Your Heart to Easily Move Out of Victimhood and StruggleMany humans are using their business as a way to avoid an intimate relationship with their hearts and to somehow bypass having loving relationships with others. The mind plays a big role in this roller coaster game of keeping you in complexity, in a whirlwind of activity and mental jabber. So it is your choice to come out of feeling like a victim of your societies, systems, and businesses.

Should Older Americans Live In Places Segregated From The Young?

Should Older Americans Live In Places Segregated From The Young?Demographers frequently remind us that the United States is a rapidly aging country. From 2010 to 2040, we expect that the age-65-and-over population will more than double in size, from about 40 to 82 million.

Please Hold Me

please hold meI never remember being held when I would cry. I was always sent to my room. It was incredibly lonely to be crying alone. I felt as if no one understood me and I had the horrible feeling that there must be something very wrong with me.

What is the Nature of an Evolved Planetary Consciousness?

What is The Nature of 
an Evolved 
Planetary Consciousness?My family and my community are just as much “me” as the organs of my body. My body and mind, my family and my community, are interacting and interpenetrating—variously prevalent elements in the network of relations that encompasses all things in nature and the human world.

Outer Child and Feeling Unloved: Learning To Be There for Yourself

Outer Child and Feeling Unloved: Learning To Be There for YourselfCouples often trade responsibility for their Inner Children. They project their disowned feelings on each other and riddle the relationship with unrealistic expectations and displaced anger. When you unwittingly hand your deepest longings over to your partner, you abandon your Inner Child all over again.

¿Por qué nuestros antepasados ​​eran más iguales que nosotros Género

¿Por qué nuestros antepasados ​​eran más iguales que nosotros GéneroA menudo se cree que las estructuras sociales jerárquicas y, a veces opresivos como el patriarcado son de alguna manera natural, - un reflejo de la ley de la selva. Pero la estructura social de los cazadores-recolectores de hoy sugiere que nuestros antepasados ​​eran de hecho altamente igualitaria, incluso cuando se trataba de género. Su secreto? No viven con muchos parientes.

How to Avoid Emotional Flooding: The Four Rules of Communication

How to Avoid Emotional Flooding: The Four Rules of CommunicationAll good communication boils down to following four simple rules. Abiding by them, anyone can communicate about any topic effectively and lovingly. There are also four opposing violations that create the misunderstandings and ensuing hurt, alienation and confusion that we experience when communicating with others.

Remember What’s Important Because Every Moment is Precious

Remember What’s Important Because Every Moment is PreciousHow much more meaningful would our moments with loved ones be if we treated them as if this might be our last time together? We would not squabble over petty issues. We would remember what’s important. Un Curso de Milagros tells us that the world we see is inside out and upside down.

A Marriage of Sweet and Bitter: Love Is Not an Either-Or Equation

A Marriage of Sweet and Bitter: Love Is Not an Either-Or EquationWe can probably all relate to the experience of feeling divided within ourselves, occasionally against ourselves, and love will certainly induce this as handily as any of life’s experiences. A little-known fact about Cupid may help explain this. He is said to have carried in his quiver dos kinds of arrows, one struck you with love, the other with hate.

A Daily Practice You'll Never Regret

A Daily Practice You'll Never RegretDo you take the people you love for granted? Do you just assume they will always be there? Do you tell them often enough that you love and care about them, or do you feel there is no need as they probably already know?

These Two Questions Found Hard Evidence of Love

evidence-of-love-2-15A new study finds quantitative evidence of love—something very few economic studies have ever claimed. The researchers asked married couples two penetrating questions about the quality of their marriage, and combined those responses with the couples’ divorce rates six years later.

La violencia doméstica es ahora a la intemperie, pero las cifras muestran hasta qué punto él es endémica

La violencia doméstica es ahora a la intemperie, pero las cifras muestran hasta qué punto él es endémicaLa violencia doméstica es física, emocional, psicológica y socialmente devastadora para las mujeres y puede tener efectos igualmente devastadores sobre sus bebés y niños. los destacados del Ministerio del Interior mientras que la violencia doméstica puede ser dirigido a los hombres por las mujeres y puede ocurrir en relaciones del mismo sexo, la mayoría inequívoca de la violencia doméstica (más de 77%) se ha comprometido por los hombres contra las mujeres.

¿Cómo puede gemelos tienen diferentes padres?

¿Cómo puede gemelos tienen diferentes padres?El reciente informe del norte de la provincia de Hoa Binh en Vietnam de gemelos nacidos de dos padres diferentes ha sido objeto de titulares en todo el mundo. El padre de los gemelos tomó los bebés para las pruebas de ADN, donde se reveló que él era el padre biológico de sólo uno de ellos - el otro gemelo fue engendrado por otro hombre.

¿Cómo aprenden los niños de la empatía?

¿Cómo aprenden los niños de la empatía?La empatía, la capacidad de comprender a los demás y sentir compasión por ellos, es sin duda la calidad humana más definitorio - nos diferencia de las máquinas inteligentes e incluso otros animales. Sin ella, no podríamos funcionar en áreas sociales tales como las escuelas, las salas de los tribunales y centros de trabajo de oficina que son los pilares de nuestra sociedad.

¿Cómo los niños a decidir lo que es justo?

niños equidad 3 20En caso de que un profesor recompensar a una clase entera de las buenas acciones de un estudiante? ¿Qué pasa con la otra cara de la moneda la disciplina: si una clase entera ser castigado por las malas acciones de unos pocos estudiantes?

¿A qué edad los niños aprenden a escribir?

Los niños pequeños están escribiendo, incluso antes de que están leyendo. Steven Yeh, CC BY-NC-NDPor lo general pensamos en la escritura como algo que está fuera del alcance de los niños en edad preescolar. Después de todo, los niños pequeños no pueden escribir letras reconocibles, y no pueden escribir las palabras.

Demasiada ayuda con la tarea puede obstaculizar de su hijo aprendizaje Progreso

Demasiada ayuda con la tarea puede obstaculizar de su hijo aprendizaje ProgresoLos padres a menudo son culpables de ayudar a su hijo un poco demasiado con su tarea. A veces la batalla tarea se puede hacer un poco más fácil si sólo dice a su hijo qué hacer, o simplemente lo haga por ellos. Al menos se ha hecho, usted piensa.

¿Por qué de Huellas Digitales En la escuela de su hijo Materia

¿Por qué de Huellas Digitales En la escuela de su hijo MateriaGrandes cantidades de datos personales, académicos y de comportamiento sobre los niños están siendo recogidos, procesados ​​y utilizados por las escuelas, autoridades locales, y el gobierno cada año.

La comprensión de apetito de su hijo es fundamental para prevenir la obesidad en la tercera edad

La comprensión de apetito de su hijo es fundamental para prevenir la obesidad en la tercera edadSi usted quiere que su niño sea un peso saludable es posible controlar el tamaño de las porciones o la frecuencia de sus comidas y meriendas. Por supuesto, se puede utilizar tanto de estas estrategias, pero un estudio publicado recientemente hemos descubierto que una estrategia es probable que sea mucho más eficaz que el otro dependiendo de los rasgos en los apetitos individuales de los niños.

Understanding Your Child’s Development

Understanding Your Child’s DevelopmentChildren come in all shapes and sizes, but not with a manual. Childhood achievements such as walking and talking are often celebrated signs that things are going well in a child’s life. However, once these achievements start being compared between children (at the park, on Facebook) they can become the cause of anxiety.

Why Young People With Life Threatening Conditions Also Need To Talk About Sex

Why Young People With Life Threatening Conditions Also Need To Talk About SexUntil the last decade, many young people with a life-limiting or life-threatening condition were not expected to live into adulthood. Now improvements in medicine and technology have changed all that for children with conditions such as duchenne muscular or spinal muscular atrophy which cause serious degeneration of muscles and nerves, or genetic disorders, such as cystic fibrosis.

Why Binge Watching Is To Blame For Kids Not Learning

Why Binge Watching Is To Blame For Kids Not LearningThe Collins English Dictionary unveiled a thoroughly modern concept as its word of the year for 2015: binge watching. It usually refers to consuming endless hours of movies or series on Netflix, one after the other. But binge watching is about the more fundamental issue of the world’s obsession with content consumption.

Cómo americana escuelas están haciendo peor desigualdad

Cómo americana escuelas están haciendo peor desigualdadLa influencia de la pobreza de los estudiantes en el aprendizaje del estudiante es indiscutible. Los estudios internacionales demuestran que en todos los países, los niños procedentes de entornos desfavorecidos son mucho menos propensos a sobresalir en la escuela que sus compañeros más afortunados.

Limiting Screen Time For Children Is Still Valid Parenting

Limiting Screen Time For Children Is Still Valid ParentingSixteen years after they published their formal recommendations discouraging any form of screen time before age two – and 14 years after making recommendations to limit screen time for older children to no more than two hours per day – they are now recanting those recommendations, calling them “outdated.”

Why Disciplining Kids Can Be So Tricky For Parents And Teachers

Why Disciplining Kids Can Be So Tricky For Parents And TeachersDisciplining works if it is not over the top and children understand the point of it. Highlights magazine’s annual State of Kids survey found that a majority of children appreciated being disciplined and believed that it helped them behave better.

Helping Our Kids (and Ourselves) Cope with Stress

Helping Our Kids (and Ourselves) Cope with StressIn a study titled “Stress in America,” commissioned by the American Psychological Association, it was found that 30 percent of teens reported feeling overwhelmed, depressed, or sad as a result of stress. Almost 25 percent said they skipped meals because of stress. Almost one-third of teens say that stress often brings them to the verge of tears...

Why Too Much Screen Time Is Linked To Poorer Exam Results

Why Too Much Screen Time Is Linked To Poorer Exam ResultsBy the time they are teenagers, more than two-thirds of young people are not doing enough physical activity. Teenagers spend an average of eight hours every day sitting, with 11 to 15-year-olds watching nearly three hours of television.

When School Kills (And It Does)...Where’s Education?

When School Kills (It Does)...Where’s Education?A stagnant nation, despairing over the death of education . . . by the Great Cat, why? Have we not learned that school kills? The nation ought to be raving joyful for the death of its failed system of diplomas and degrees, raving delighted at the greening of this grand new culture, the Passionate Self-Educated.

Just What Actually Does Lead To Success In School?

Just What Actually Does Lead To Success In School?Recent research suggests success is partly driven by character skills. “Grit,” for example, or perseverance and passion for long-term goals, seems to be a better predictor of success than IQ in school and beyond.

Cómo reducir los prejuicios entre los grupos de niños en la escuela

La gente y los beneficios planeta de "verdes" edificios gente y beneficio planeta de edificios 'verdes' de Paul Brown Investigación en todo el mundo muestra que los edificios ecológicos son mucho mejores para la salud de las personas que viven y trabajan en ellos, así como para la Tierra. LONDRES, 19 julio 2015 - Edificios que están diseñados para reducir el consumo de agua y energía y hacer el menor impacto en el medio ambiente circundante como sea posible hacer la vida mucho mejor para sus ocupantes también. Los estudios en los edificios 69,000 - hogares, oficinas y fábricas en los países - 150 muestran que hay un menor número de enfermedades entre los residentes y los trabajadores, que reporta ser más cómodo y más feliz. Los empleadores también dan cuenta de que son más productivos. Las empresas que optan por edificios "verdes" ganan porque los trabajadores permanecer más tiempo en sus puestos de trabajo y tienen menos ausencias, mientras que el reclutamiento es más fácil ya que los nuevos empleados se sienten atraídos por los edificios amigables con el ambiente. El Dr. Joseph Allen y los investigadores de salud ambiental compañeros en la Escuela TH Chan de Harvard de Salud Pública de los EE.UU. estudiaron los informes de todo el mundo sobre el efecto de los edificios verdes en la salud de los ocupantes. Quince estudios se incorporan a la revisión, publicada en la revista Current Informes de Salud Ambiental. efectos saludables En la actualidad hay 3.5 millones de pies cuadrados (0.325 metros cuadrados) de espacio de la certificación de edificios verdes disponibles en todo el mundo, y los investigadores de muchos países diferentes han estado midiendo los efectos de ver si estos edificios son también edificios "más saludables". "En general, la evidencia científica inicial indica una mejor calidad del ambiente interior en los edificios verdes frente a los edificios no verdes, con beneficios directos para la salud humana para los ocupantes de los edificios", dice Allen. Los ocupantes de los edificios verdes son en general más satisfechos con la calidad del aire interior, su espacio de trabajo, limpieza de edificios, y mantenimiento en general, añade. La información es importante para el futuro diseño de edificios modernos porque los seres humanos pasan 90% de su tiempo en interiores. La investigación mide la calidad del aire interior, la luz, el ruido y la presencia de productos químicos que podrían afectar negativamente a la salud, así como pedir a las personas que viven y trabajan en ellos acerca de su experiencia. La información es importante para el futuro diseño de los edificios, ya que, como señalan los investigadores, los humanos modernos pasan 90% de su tiempo en interiores. Para medir el efecto sobre la salud y el bienestar, los científicos observaron muchos estudios que habían tenido en cuenta factores que influyen en la salud - incluyendo radiológicos, químicos, biológicos y aspectos físicos de los peligros ambientales interiores. La calidad del aire Se miraron la calidad del aire, ventilación, filtración, iluminación y acústica, y estudió la arquitectura, la calidad de las cantinas, acceso a luz natural, y sus alrededores del edificio. En los edificios residenciales, había menos asma y otras enfermedades respiratorias entre los niños, y en todos los edificios verdes hay menos casos de síntomas de síndrome del edificio enfermo, con una mejor salud física y mental en general. La única área que no obtienen mejores resultados fue la acústica, con varios estudios que informan una menor satisfacción sobre los niveles de ruido. Cuando los hospitales se habían construido como edificios verdes, los investigadores encontraron una mejor calidad de atención a los pacientes. En un estudio, hubo 70% menos infecciones de la sangre en circulación, mejora el mantenimiento de registros y la mortalidad global del paciente se redujo en 11% - aunque los científicos no fueron capaces de identificar los factores que produce una mejora tan sorprendente. - Red de Noticias del Clima"Puntos de vista racistas y anti-inmigración en poder de los niños", advirtió un titular reciente en The Guardian, informar sobre los resultados de una encuesta de casi 6,000 escolares británicos llevados a cabo por la organización benéfica Mostrar tarjeta roja al racismo.

What Makes Siblings From The Same Family So Different?

What Makes Siblings From The Same Family So Different?A colleague related the following story: while running errands with her 11- and 7-year-old daughters, a back seat battle began to rage. My colleague’s attempts to diffuse the situation only led to a shouting match about who was to blame for the skirmish. Finally the 11-year-old proclaimed to her sister, “You started it the day you were born and took away Mom’s love!”

Without Teacher Guidance, All The Tech In The World Will Be Quite Useless

Without Teacher Guidance, All The Tech In The World Will Be Quite UselessA couple of years ago, I taught an afterschool class at a Seattle nonprofit, the Technology Access Foundation (TAF), which provides STEM education (science, technology, engineering, math) to children from less-privileged backgrounds. My students were 8-11 years old, and it was the first time that I had taught elementary school students.

Early Intervention Lasts Even Years Later For Kids With Autism

Early Intervention Lasts Even Years Later For Kids With AutismA new study is the first in more than 20 years to look at long-term outcomes after early intensive autism intervention. Therapy began when children were 18 to 30 months old and involved therapists and parents working with children at home for more than 15 hours each week for two years.

Our Children Belong To The Universe, Not To Us

Our Children Belong To The Universe, Not To UsSome parents think it’s their job to make their children happy and to think for them – but this is not true. It’s not the parents’ job to think for their children or to make them happy. It’s impossible for one human being to think for another human being or to make another human being happy.

Are Parents Morally Obligated To Forbid Their Kids From Playing Football?

Are Parents Morally Obligated To Forbid Their Kids From Playing Football?In March 2015, San Francisco 49ers linebacker Chris Borland shocked football fans when he announced his decision to retire after just one season in the NFL. He explained that he was concerned over the long-term health hazards of football-related head trauma, and journalists and media personalities covered the story extensively.

How Young Students Create New Music And Why They Should

How Young Students Create New Music And Why They ShouldOn asking six-year-olds why water flows down a mountain, one of the responses I received was, “because then we don’t have to walk up the mountain to get it”. Children of this age often conceptualise the world’s physical attributes as being divined for the service of humans, or even just for them.

Why Children Should Pick Their Summer Reading

Why Children Should Pick Their Summer ReadingAt the end of the school year, districts often send stacks of books home with their students in the hopes of combating the “summer slide” in reading skills. This type of literacy loss hits low-income students particularly hard.

Por qué no hacer el Aula sobre el aprendizaje y no examinando?

Por qué no hacer el Aula sobre el aprendizaje y no examinando?Hemos oído historias sobre el engaño: académica de los estudiantes capturados en trampas en sus tareas, así como pruebas de acceso a la universidad para los profesores de ser atrapados en escándalos de trampas, como los que hay en Atlanta, Georgia, y Columbus, Ohio.

Why Do Poor Children Perform More Poorly Than Rich Ones?

Why Do Poor Children Perform More Poorly Than Rich Ones?Research has shown that children of poorer parents display substantially worse math and reading skills by the time they start grade school. Other studies have revealed that these wide gaps in pre-school skills persist into adulthood and help explain low educational attainment and lifetime earnings.

Kids Need To Like What They're Reading To Progress

Kids Need To Like What They're Reading To ProgressWhen we think of reading for our children, we are often misled into thinking that we need to focus on one type of book, such as picture books or novels in order to practise specific, reading-related skills. However, this narrowly-focused approach to reading instruction can often have undesirable benefits, such as turning kids off reading altogether.

Why Some Children Think They're More Special Than Everyone Else

Why Some Children Think They're More Special Than Everyone ElseNarcissistic children feel superior to others, believe they are entitled to privileges and crave admiration from others. When they don’t get the admiration they want, they may lash out aggressively. Why do some children become narcissistic, whereas others develop more modest views of themselves?

Gentle Parenting: Disciplining Children Without Rewards Or Punishment

Gentle Parenting: Disciplining Children Without Rewards Or PunishmentMany parents are moving towards “gentle parenting”, where they choose not to use rewards (sticker charts, lollies, chocolates, TV time as “bribes”) and punishments (taking away “privileges”, time-out, smacking) to encourage good behaviour, but encourage good behaviour for the sake of doing the right thing.

Los médicos son una prescripción excesiva antipsicóticos Medicamentos Para los niños?

la prescripción de fármacos antipsicóticos a los niñosLos medicamentos antipsicóticos, como Risperdal, Seroquel y Abilify, se han desarrollado para el tratamiento de adultos con enfermedades mentales graves como la esquizofrenia y el trastorno bipolar. Pero en los últimos años, su uso se ha extendido para el tratamiento de condiciones como el autismo y el trastorno por déficit de atención / hiperactividad (TDAH) en niños y adolescentes.

Play Isn't Just For Primary School Kids – It's Got An Image Problem

Play Isn't Just For Primary School Kids – It's Got An Image ProblemWhy does a four-year-old play when a 14-year-old creates? It’s often argued that play is central to the lives of young children. Yet the play of older children and adults is often seen as leisure, escapism or even deviance. But there should not be such a binary division between what is educational and what is frivolous.

Science Says: Eat With Your Kids

Science Says: Eat With Your KidsAs a family therapist, I often have the impulse to tell families to go home and have dinner together rather than spending an hour with me. And 20 years of research in North America, Europe and Australia back up my enthusiasm for family dinners. It turns out that sitting down for a nightly meal is great for the brain, the body and the spirit.

A Gift For Our Children’s Future: Maybe There's Another Way

A Gift For Our Children’s Future: Maybe There's Another WayI can remember like yesterday sitting at the dinner table as a child with my parents and siblings and feeling like the world was going to end. My parents would openly discuss current events. I thought to myself what will be in this world? How will I be safe? What can the future look like when these terrible things are happening all the time?

Children’s Sleep Quality Matters for Specific School Subjects

Children’s Sleep Quality Matters for Certain School SubjectsA new study finds a link between a good night’s sleep for school-aged kids and better performance in math and languages specifically—subjects that are powerful predictors of later learning and academic success.

Indigo Children: Master Teachers and Innate Healers

Indigo Children: Master Teachers and Innate Healers

Indigos process their emotions differently than non Indigos because they have high self-esteem and strong integrity. They can read you like an open book and quickly notice and neutralize any hidden agendas or attempts to manipulate them, however subtly.

Gender Stereotypes Make Teenagers More Accepting Of Violence

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Teenagers' opinions about when violence is acceptable or not can be influenced by the way they perceive men and women and the relationships between them. Simply telling young people that violence is wrong won’t stop it happening.

Your Problems Have Their Roots In Your Family Tree

Your Problems Have Their Roots In Your Family Tree

To examine a person’s difficulties is to enter into the psychological atmosphere of his or her family. We are marked by their characteristics, but also by their insane ideas, their negative feelings, their inhibited desires, and their destructive acts. All problems have their roots in the family tree.

¿Cómo un mal recuerdo en realidad se puede Br bueno para usted

¿Cómo un mal recuerdo en realidad se puede Br bueno para ustedNo es raro escuchar a las personas que desean que tenían una mejor memoria. "Si yo no estuviera tan olvidadizos", se quejan. "Si tan sólo pudiera recordar de forma fiable la contraseña del ordenador, y que el nombre de mi vecino es Sarah, no Sandra." Si esto suena familiar, entonces yo sé cómo se siente.

El dulce amanecer de renovación después de la Noche Oscura del Alma

El dulce amanecer de renovación después de la Noche Oscura del AlmaLa renovación está bien descrito por el novelista y poeta beat Jack Kerouac en su línea, "Vi que mi vida era un gran brillante página en blanco y yo podía hacer lo que quisiera." Después de una transición sin problemas, trae un sentido de renovación gradual de la estabilidad y la seguridad después de una época de cambios rápidos. A medida que avanzamos hacia nuestros sueños ...

Es el mes del amor! Amo la mierda fuera de usted!

Es el mes del amor! Amo la mierda fuera de usted!Feliz febrero! Es el mes del amor! ¿Qué (seamos honestos aquí) puede significar o estás sintiendo o no lo eres. No hay en el medio cuando estamos hablando sobre el Día de San Valentín, estoy en lo cierto?

Rediscovering Yourself When Life Puts the Squeeze On You

Rediscovering Yourself When Life Puts the Squeeze On YouWhen the six-year-old showed his drawing to the grownups in his life, instead of seeing a boa constrictor digesting an elephant, they thought it was a drawing of a hat. Whenever he showed it to adults, he received the same response. The youngster concluded that none of the grownups had any imagination at all!

The Most Common Issues for Earth Angels: Love, Fear, and Trust

The Most Common Issues for Earth Angels: Love, Fear, and TrustAs you experience being an earth angel, you will discover that the path of service is riddled with deep feelings. We are in service at all times, and we need to set an example to other earth angels. If you are living with dysfunction, and your life is not in balance, you need to seek out a teacher and heal within. We cannot serve others when we are ourselves are out of balance.

Are Your Core Values Yours, or Do They Belong to Someone Else?

Are Your Core Values Yours, or Do They Belong to Someone Else?Core values are the things in our lives that we live from that are nonnegotiable. They are at the heart of who we are, and they need to resonate with our heart’s energy. If they don’t, they are not our values but belong to someone else.

Is Your Outer Child a Self-Saboteur and a Bully?

Welcome to Your Outer ChildWhat makes you break your diet, or run up your credit card, or be attracted to all the wrong people? Each of us has self-sabotaging tendencies, the origins of which elude us. Be confused no longer! I’m here to tell you that these behaviors are attributable to a part of your personality that perhaps you didn’t even know you had: your Outer Child.

Widening Your Lens and Reframing Your Story

Widening Your Lens and Reframing Your StoryOur biographies are truly ours to play with, and it is our responsibility to take care with how we do this. If, for instance, you tell yourself an old story that revolves around the notion that no matter what you do, “that’s just the way it is,” and the ending will always be the same, the universe will eventually show you exactly that.

Understanding Karma and Resolving Emotional Wounds

Understanding Karma and Resolving Emotional WoundsIn my years of working with clients and their karmic history, I have chosen to take the meaning of karma out of the duality, that is, the belief that doing good brings good things, doing bad brings bad things. Instead, I use a deeper spiritual meaning of karma—its role as the unresolved emotional wounds...

Shining the Light on The Jewel in the Lotus

Shining the Light on The Jewel in the LotusA website or any new profession, relationship, or step ahead in life is an excellent projective test for where your consciousness lives at the moment. Since life is more about what’s going on dentro de you rather than what’s going on outside, the best use of outside is to shine light on the inside, so you can progress in your soul’s journey.

Love Yourself Madly: Debunking the “I Am Not Enough” Fallacy

Love Yourself Madly: Debunking the “I Am Not Enough” FallacyEn una entrevista en The Oprah Winfrey Show, Jane Fonda revealed that it wasn’t until after she turned sixty that she realized one of life’s most important secrets: She had to give up her incessant desire to be perfect so that she could begin to experience herself as whole.

How We Internalize Blame and Feelings of Unworthiness

How We Internalize Blame and Feelings of UnworthinessWe all carry some degree of self-blame, ways we accuse or condemn ourselves. Often these feelings come from our childhood, where we were blamed for mistakes we made. It’s sad how other people’s blame of us can turn into our blame of ourselves, which then often becomes our secret shame, and can keep us from the happiness we want...

No hay reglas de la atracción Cuando se trata de satisfacer su partido

No hay reglas de la atracción Cuando se trata de satisfacer su partidoHace algún tiempo, me encontré sola vez (shock, horror!) y decidí volver al mundo de las citas. Una cosa que me llamó la atención desde muy temprano en mis incursiones era que todo el mundo tenía una opinión acerca de "lo que funciona" en términos de citas.

Para ser feliz, encontrar a alguien como usted

Para ser feliz, encontrar a alguien como ustedLas relaciones a menudo se interpretan como el resultado de un intercambio de bienes y servicios. El conocimiento común dice que los sexos quieren cosas diferentes de un socio.

¿Por qué se sienten atraídos por personas que se parecen a Nuestros Padres

¿Por qué se sienten atraídos por personas que se parecen a Nuestros Padres¿Alguna vez ha pensado que había un aire de familia extraña entre su amigo y su pareja? O se preguntó por un instante si el par caminando por la carretera eran marido y mujer, o hermano y hermana? Es posible que no imaginando cosas. Animales de muchas especies "aprender" lo que una adecuada

¿Qué hacen nuestros hábitos de consumo revelan acerca de nuestras intenciones románticas?

¿Qué hacen nuestros hábitos de consumo revelan acerca de nuestras intenciones románticas?El dinero no podría comprar el amor, pero de acuerdo con algunos estudios en psicología y el comportamiento de los consumidores, cómo lo gasta podría revelar una cosa o dos acerca de sus intenciones románticas. Estos estudios demuestran que sólo de pensar en el cumplimiento de una nueva pareja de hecho puede afectar nuestras decisiones de compra de manera sorprendente - que afecta a hombres y mujeres de manera diferente.

Cómo Kissing empodera a las mujeres

Cómo Kissing empodera a las mujeresEn las culturas occidentales, marcamos el comienzo de enredo romántica tocando los labios. Pocas acciones son tan cargada de ansiedad y el simbolismo como el primer beso y no es exagerado decir que algunos besos se sienten como la vida o la muerte.

Can You Revive The Spark In A Long-term Relationship?

Can You Revive The Spark In A Long-term Relationship?At the beginning of a romantic relationship, passion is not in short supply. The thrills of learning all about your beloved, sharing new experiences, and having plenty of sex, create an exhilarating state of desire and romantic love. In fact, a number of scientific studies have shown that this kind of love

Why Your Selfie Obsession Could Ruin Your Relationship

Your Selfie Obsession Could Ruin Your Relationship“Selfie” is not just word of the year, but also the mainstay of postings on social media sites such as Instagram. With the prevalence of camera-equipped smartphones the posting of selfies has reached epidemic levels – even the funerals of national leaders aren’t exempt. But is there a psychological fall-out?

Why Is It Hard To Exorcise The Ghosts Of Romantic Pasts?

Why Is It Hard To Exorcise The Ghosts Of Romantic Pasts?A friend once grumbled that, given the choice, she’d rather see her ex miserable than herself happy. Few things in life are as traumatic as the end of a long-term, romantic relationship. Nonetheless, many people are able to eventually recover and move on relatively unscathed.

Even After Death, One Spouse Relies On The Other

"Even though your marriage ends in a literal sense when you lose your spouse, the effects of who the person was still seems to matter even after they're gone," Kyle Bourassa says. (Credit: Nora Raaum/Flickr)Even though your marriage ends in a literal sense when you lose your spouse, the effects of who the person was still seems to matter even after they're gone